Eid Milad-un-Nabi…what are the facts?

To Celebrate or Not to Celebrate…That is the Question

by Asma bint Shameem

Some of us celebrate it with great devotion and diligence, while some of us are against it with an equally great vengeance. Some say it is our religious duty while others say it is nothing but bid’ah.

People argue about it. Families split up, friends forsake each other. And sometimes people literally fight over it and hurt one another.

So what is it that I am talking about?

I am talking about celebrating the birthday of the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam), the Mawlid or Milad, as some of us say.

Yes, the 12th of Rabi-ul-Awwal came and went. But, ever wondered…. . what is the reality regarding the celebration of the birth of our beloved Prophet anyway?

Let’s examine the facts.

First of all, whenever a Muslim is faced with a problem or confusing situation, what are we supposed to do? Allaah tells us:

“O you who believe! Obey Allaah and obey the Messenger (Muhammad), and those of you (Muslims) who are in authority. (And) if you differ in anything amongst yourselves, refer it to Allaah and His Messenger, if you believe in Allaah and in the Last Day. That is better and more suitable for final determination” [Nisaa’:59]

Referring it to Allaah and His Messenger means to turn to Allaah’s Book and the Sunnah of the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam).

1. What does the Qur’aan say about the Mawlid?

Nothing. Yes that’s right…..NOTHING.

There is absolutely nothing in the Quraan that tells us to celebrate the birthday of the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam). Not one single ayah.

You see, all acts of worship are tawqeefi which means that they are not subject to personal opinion and it is not permissible to do any acts of worship except those which are approved by Shareeah.

So, for example, I cannot pick a special day or time, say the 22nd of every month, and start celebrating that day as a form of worship.

Why?

Because there is nothing in the Shareeah that permits me to do that.

Also, I cannot start praying three rakaah for Fajr from tomorrow, even if I want to worship Allaah more, because Fajr Salah is only two rakaat as commanded upon us by the Shareeah.

And similarly, if there is no order for us to celebrate the birthday of the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam), then we dont.

In fact, the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said: “Whoever innovates anything in this matter of ours (i.e., Islam), that is not part of it will have it rejected.” (Bukhaari).

Now someone might argue that we dont celebrate the Mawlid/Milad as an act of worship.

So let’s see what other evidences we have.

2. What does the Sunnah say about it?

Again, there is nothing in the Sunnah of the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) that shows us that the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) EVER celebrated his birthday or that of his wives, children, or Sahaabah.

There is not a single hadeeth that tells us that he (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) thought this day was significant enough to celebrate it.

Just think…..if there was any good in doing so, wouldnt he would have done so himself and wouldnt he have ordered the Sahaabah to do so?

And obviously, it is not possible that he (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) forgot to tell us about it, Aoodhu billaah!

Did the Sahaabah celebrate the Mawlid/Milad?

The Sahaabah were witnesses to the revelation of the Quraan.

They had the Prophet right in front of their eyes.

They ate, drank, sat, slept, talked, walked, lived with the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam).

If they misunderstood anything or were mistaken, the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) immediately corrected them. And thus, their understanding and practice of Islaam was the best.

Yet, when we look at the lives and practice of the Sahaabah, we find that none of them EVER celebrated the birth of their beloved Prophet, whether during his life or even after he passed away.

Not Abubakr, not Umar, not Uthman, not Ali, nor Aaishah, Ibn Umar, Ibn Masud, Talha, Az-Zubair, not a single Sahaabi.

Doesn’t that prove anything?

The Sahaabah absolutely loved the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam). They gave up their homes, families, lives, everything they had… for his sake, in the blink of an eye. Yet this love did NOT promote them to celebrate his birth.

This love translated into the practical application of his teachings and NOT picking the 12th of Rabi-ul-Awwal as a day of celebration.

What about the Four Imaams and other Ulama?

Did any of the Imaams – Abu Haneefah, Maalik, al-Shaafi’i, Ahmad, al-Hasan al-Basri, do this or command others to do it or say that it was good? No. In fact, it was not even mentioned during the first and best three centuries.

The Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said: “The best of mankind are my generation, then those who come after them, then those who come after them. (Bukhaari, Muslim and al-Tirmidhi) .

And if the ‘best of mankind’ didnt celebrate his birth, then we shouldnt either.

Actually, the celebration of the Prophet’s birthday appeared many centuries later. By this time, many of the features of true religion had disappeared and bid’ah had become widespread.

Think about it!

Can it be possible that the Sahaabah, the Imaams and the people of the best three centuries were unaware of the importance of celebrating the birthday of the Prophet or that they were lacking in their love for him?

And it was only those who came later who were aware of it or loved him more?!!! How can that be?!!

Actually, dear brother/sister in Islaam, TRUE love of the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) is shown and proven by following the guidance that he brought. So follow his Sunnah to the best of your ability and don’t fall into innovated forms of worship. It is nothing but a trap of the Shaytaan.

“Say (O Muhammad): ‘If you (really) love Allaah, then follow me, Allah will love you and forgive you your sins. And Allaah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful. (Aal ‘Imraan 3:31)

And remember the words of the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) when he said:

“The best of speech is the Book of Allaah, and the best of guidance is the guidance of Muhammad. The most evil of things are those which are newly-invented (in religion), and every innovation (bid’ah) is a going astray.”

(Muslim and al-Nisaa’i).

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Valentine's Day Special

Most Muslims who indulge in many alien cultural practices, these days, do not know what they are doing. They are just blind followers of their equally blind cultural leaders.

Little do they realise that what they regard as innocent fun may in fact be rooted in paganism. That the symbols they embrace may be symbols of unbelief. That the ideas they borrow may be products of superstition. And that all these may be a negation of what Islam stands for.

Consider Valentine's Day, a day that after dying out a well deserved death in most of Europe - but surviving in Britain and the United States - has suddenly started to emerge across a swath of Muslim countries. Who was Valentine? Why is this day observed?

Legends abound, as they do in all such cases, but this much is clear: Valentine's Day began as a pagan ritual started by Romans in the 4th century BCE to honour Lupercus, the ‘god of fertility and flocks’. Its main attraction was a lottery held to distribute young women to young men for ‘entertainment and pleasure’ - until the next year’s lottery.

Among other equally despicable practices associated with this day was the lashing of young women by two young men, clad only in a bit of goatskin and wielding goatskin thongs, who had been smeared with the blood of sacrificial goats and dogs. A lash of the ‘sacred’ thongs by these ‘holy men’ was believed to make the women better able to bear children.

As usual, Christianity tried, unsuccessfully, to n the evil celebration of Lupercalia. It first replaced the lottery of the names of women with a lottery of the names of saints. The idea was that during the following year the young men would emulate the life of the saint whose name they had drawn. Christianity ended up doing in Rome, and elsewhere, as the Romans did.

The idea that you can preserve the appearance of a popular evil and yet somehow turn it to serve the purpose of virtue has survived. Look at all those people who are still trying, helplessly, to use the formats of popular television entertainment to promote good. They might learn something from this episode in history. It failed miserably.

The only success it had was in changing the name of Lupercalia to St Valentine’s Day. It was done in the year 496 by Pope Gelasius, in honour of one Saint Valentine. However, there are as many as 50 different Valentines in Christian legends. Two of them are more famous, although their lives and characters are also shrouded in mystery.

According to one legend, which is more in line with the true nature of this celebration, St Valentine was a ‘lover’s saint’ who had himself fallen in love with his jailer’s daughter.

Due to serious troubles that accompanied such lottery, French government banned the Valentine ritual in 1776. It also vanished over the years in Italy, Austria, Hungry, and Germany. Earlier, during the 17th century when the Puritans were strong it had been banned in England, but King Charles II revived it in 1660.

From England the Valentine ritual arrived in the New World, where enterprising Yankees spotted a good means of making money. Esther A Howland who produced, in the 1840s, one of the first commercial American Valentine Day cards called - what else valentines sold $5,000 worth in the first year. (Then $5,000 was a lot of money.) The valentine industry has been booming ever since.

It is the same story with Halloween, which has otherwise normal human beings dressing like ghosts and goblins in a re-enactment of an ancient pagan ritual of demon worship.

The pagan name for that event was Samhain (pronounced sow-en). Just as in case of Valentine's Day, Christianity changed its name, but not the pagan moorings.

Five star hotels in Muslim countries arrange Halloween parties so the rich can celebrate the superstitions of a distant period of ignorance that, at one time, even included the shameful practice of human sacrifice.

Christmas is another story. Today Muslim shopkeepers sell and shoppers buy Christmas symbols in Islamabad or Dubai or Cairo. To engage in a known religious celebration of another religion is bad enough. What is worse is the fact that here is another pagan celebration (Saturnalia) that has been changed in name - and in little else - by Christianity.

Even the apparently innocuous celebration might have pagan foundations. According to one account, in pagan cultures, people feared evil spirits, especially on their birthdays. It was a common belief that evil spirits were more dangerous to a person when he or she experienced a change in their daily life, such as turning a year older. So family and friends surrounded the person with laughter and joy on their birthdays to protect them from evil.

How can anyone in his right mind think that Islam would be indifferent to practices steeped in anti -Islamic ideas and beliefs? Islam came to destroy paganism in all its forms: it cannot tolerate any trace of it m the lives of its followers.

Further, Islam is very sensitive about maintaining its purity and the unique identity of its believers. Islamic laws and teachings go to extra lengths to ensure it.

For example, salâh is forbidden at the precise times of sunrise, transition and sunset to eliminate the possibility that it might get mixed up or be confused with the practice of sun worship. To the voluntary recommended fast on the tenth of Muharram, Muslims are required to add another day (9th or 11th) to distinguish it from the then prevalent Jewish practice. Muslims are forbidden to emulate the appearance of non- Muslims.

A Muslim is a Muslim for life. During joys and sorrows, during celebrations and sufferings, we must follow the one straight path - not many divergent paths. It is a great tragedy that under the constant barrage of commercial and cultural propaganda from the forces of Jahiliya and the relentless media machine, Muslims have begun to embrace the Valentines, the Halloween ghosts, and even Santa Claus

courtesy: IRF group, Ammara Qidwai

How to recover from an agent giving out incorrect advice

A good customer experience is critical in maintaining a steady and satisfied customer base. Problems will inevitably happen, which is why it is vital to ensure that your complaints resolution procedures are robust.

Jane Langan and Derek Bishop explore one of the most difficult aspects of complaints resolution - how to recover from giving incorrect advice.
If you have a situation where information has been given out incorrectly then you have an opportunity to learn and develop. This will help you to ensure the problem does not recur and to gain the customer’s confidence and manage their expectations.

You will have two areas which need to be managed:

• The customer’s expectations and needs
• The employee’s knowledge

James Joyce said, ‘A man’s errors are his portals of discovery’.

(For this I am going to call the customer, John and the employee, Billy).

John may not realise that he has been given wrong information. Should Billy leave it and hope for the best? No, of course not.

John is always going to find out; it is just a matter of time. Imagine how John will feel when he does find out that the information he has been given is incorrect.

John is probably going to be angry, disappointed and feel like he has wasted his time. This is going to put your company at risk because John is going tell his friends – we love to talk about bad experiences, and those friends will tell their friends and so on…

Your reputation as a company will be put at risk and your customer base could reduce.

Alexander Pope said, ‘At ev’ry word a reputation dies’. These are wise words indeed.

So what can we do to recover from the situation?

Step 1 – Helping the employee (Part 1)

Talk to Billy: What happened? Why did it happen? When did it happen? How did it happen? What can we do to stop this occurring again?

Collate the details of the inaccuracy and assess it.

The first step is then to resolve the issue with the customer.

So we must, initially, give Billy the tools to resolve the situation with John and support him through it. We must ensure that Billy is confident doing this and that we are comfortable that Billy can complete this effectively.

We need to make certain that Billy is prepared for all eventualities.

What if John is really angry?
What if John wants to take the issue higher?
What if John wishes to lodge a formal complaint?

Does Billy know how to deal with all of these possible outcomes?

Step 2 – Helping the customer

How can we turn the situation around with John?

We have established exactly what has happened by discussing and assessing the situation with Billy.

Above all else, we need to restore John’s confidence, so the quicker we identify the error, take responsibility and resolve the situation, the better.

We need to decide on best next steps with John, and this should be a two-way street and will depend on what John wants, what sort of person he is and what we can do to resolve the situation.

Should you get Billy’s line manager to call John or do you get Billy to call?

If the line manager calls it shows we take this very seriously and we are aware of what has happened.

If Billy calls, it will help John to feel that he is getting a good service from Billy and will be a step forward in re-building the trust in the customer relationship. Similarly, if Billy makes the call, he shouldn’t feel undermined by his line manager which should build his confidence. If John still wants to talk to Billy’s line manager for reassurance, that’s OK too, but if you have given Billy the support and training to manage the situation this shouldn’t be necessary.

However, this does depend on the severity of the situation and the impact of the incorrect advice.

Whoever makes the call, they should immediately apologise, explain what has happened and then give him the correct advice.

They will need to reassure John that we have taken steps to ensure this doesn’t happen again and explain exactly what those steps are.

Ideally, Billy will explain what has happened and what we/he has done to resolve it; if at all possible Billy will take action to go the extra mile. This should make John feel valued and remove any concerns that may have been raised by the initial error, so that when John tells the tale of this experience it will be under the heading of Great Customer Service.

Step 3 – Future planning

Helping the employee (Part 2) and the customer

Does Billy need additional training?

Was there an issue with the data Billy referred to, is it out of date, or incorrect?

Does Billy find it hard to concentrate because of an environmental factor? For example, an air conditioning unit blowing cold air constantly onto his neck, is it too noisy, is he uncomfortable at his desk, in his chair, etc? Is there anything you can do to resolve the problem?

Is Billy bored? If so, Billy is not focused (and possibly stressed), how can we alleviate the boredom? Is there anything more challenging we can ask him to complete?
Has Billy got too much to do? If so, Billy is struggling to focus on one thing. Do we need to reduce his work load or look at offering some time and work management training?

Once you have found out where the problem lies (and it may be more than one of the above suggestions) then you will need to set clear, realistic timescales and actions to ensure that the appropriate steps are made to resolve the problem.

If it is the technology or information error this is easily resolved and can be dealt with quickly. If it is an underlying personal issue it will be a longer and more complex resolution.

In these cases there are a number of people who you may need support from for Billy. You may need to get your Human Resources team involved, or your trainers. Overall, you will need to manage this and maintain Billy’s motivation. There has to be a key message here and it is not a message of blame; Billy has made us aware of a problem, a gap, a risk. Now we are aware of it we can tackle it and without Billy this wouldn’t have happened. Your employees have all the power to make your business effective and efficient, listen to them, learn from your mistakes and your business will be a success.

As Alexander Pope said, ‘to err is human to forgive is divine’.

Jane Langan is Contact Centre Manager at the Solicitors Regulatory Authority (SRA) www.sra.org.uk

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When customers are unhappy, it is sometimes easier when there is something external to blame, such as a parcel gone missing or another department didn’t fax through the right paperwork, but giving the wrong advice and being found out leaves little room for manoeuvre.

Once in this situation, the customer could swing either way depending on how effectively and honestly you deal with the matter in hand.

There are two scenarios that I am going to look at today, the first is where the customer spots the fact that incorrect advice has been given before the organisation does.

1. When the customer spots incorrect advice

If the customer spots that incorrect advice has or may have been provided by a call centre agent, the trick is to treat it as a potential complaint and make sure you follow your in-house complaint procedures. Whilst it may not be a full complaint, it will at least be an expression of dissatisfaction with the service which has been provided and this means the customer should be handled sensitively, and it is essential to follow a robust process to ensure the matter is concluded fully and satisfactorily.

This way not only will the issue be resolved with the customer, but any learnings from the incident can be captured and shared through the in-house complaints process.

Like any complaint, it is important to get to the root cause of why incorrect advice has been provided – was it really a mistake by the agent or is there something wrong in the systems, scripts or processes which has led the agent to give incorrect advice.

If the cause is within the systems or processes, then the other dimension to consider is how many other agents will also have given incorrect advice?

Let’s assume that it’s just this agent – reviewing the incident with the agent should seek first to understand what happened, and help the agent to identify with what went wrong and what may have contributed to it. This review may well identify some skills or knowledge gaps which previously were not identified, in which case corrective training/coaching and then monitoring can be implemented to ensure the agent is equipped to resolve these particular customer enquiries accurately in future. Any such action should be captured and documented in the performance review documentation for the agent, so there is full visibility and audit trail of what has happened following the incident.

If, however, the root cause of the incorrect advice is identified as being systems or processes, the issue becomes a lot larger.

An investigation needs to take place into how long this has been incorrect, how many customers may have been affected, etc. This then leads on to proactive action being required, as discussed later for instances where the business spots the error in advice before the customer does.

Whatever the corrective action identified and put in place, it’s important to share this with the customer to provide reassurance that you’re not just fixing this individual incident but that you have investigated properly and that action is being taken to minimise the risk of incorrect advice being given to other customers in future. This demonstrates integrity and concern to the customer.

In discussing with the customer, make sure you empathise with them about the impact the incorrect advice may have had on them and suitably apologise. It is also worth asking the customer what they need in order to overcome the situation from their viewpoint. What corrective action would they like, what compensation might they be seeking (if any) – the art is in asking the questions in the right way that leads the customer to determine what should happen – in most instances the customer will be less demanding and seek less compensation (if justified) than you might have expected.

If incorrect advice has been given as part of a sales call, then it is vitally important to deal with the issue straight away. Of course, in some instances, e.g. financial services, the regulator will be expecting proactive resolution of the incorrect advice.

There is a judgement to be made about who should resolve the incident with the customer. If the agent is suitably trained and prepared for the discussion with the customer, then the agent phoning to resolve the matter demonstrates to the customer that they are taking responsibility for their mistake.

However, to demonstrate that the issue has been taken seriously by the business, it may be deemed suitable for a more senior person to be involved in resolving the situation with the customer. This is a judgment call based on the severity of the incident and how you feel the customer may respond, plus how confident you feel in the agent being able to resolve the situation satisfactorily.

If the resolution of the incident is going to take a while, make sure you keep the customer informed throughout the process – again treating it as a complaint and proactively communicating with the customer will help appease the situation.

In all of the investigations it is important to understand the customer’s viewpoint - it may well be that there are two sides of the story and some contributory factors from the customer which led to the incorrect advice being given.

2. If the business spots the incorrect advice before the customer does

In this situation all these same principles should apply, but let’s be honest, some may think, well, let’s see if the customer spots it and then we’ll deal with it at that time.

My guidance would be to be proactive about it. If you’ve identified the issue, communicate with the customer about it immediately, don’t sit and hope for the best, as the consequences of the customer complaining at a later date will be significantly more than if dealt with at the time of spotting the issue.

Here’s an example of where incorrect advice was provided and the whole situation was handled poorly:

A mobile broadband data card was purchased for a Windows Vista machine.

The first data card didn’t work, so the customer contacted the helpline service and checked that the card could be used with a Vista machine. The agent confirmed yes, and said that they would issue a new data card as perhaps it was faulty. This happened three times until a correct answer was obtained – the card would not work with a Vista machine. But even then the agent did not correctly close down the accounts and refund the charges, it took the customer to submit a formal complaint letter before appropriate action was taken.

Had the first agent confirmed that the data card would not work with Vista, yes the customer would have gone elsewhere for their purchase, but that’s what happened in the end anyway. What happened in the meantime was there was a huge amount of wasted time and costs for the organisation (and the customer), plus the customer now has a very poor view of the mobile telecoms provider so is highly unlikely to purchase any products/service from them in the future. In such an instance, the damage done is much greater than just the one incident.

In reality, any issue which results in customer dissatisfaction should be treated as a complaint and steps taken to investigate, rectify and record the incident to prevent it happening again. With the increasing exposure of unhappy customers via web forums and reviews, consistently incorrect advice is an issue that organisations can no longer afford to ignore.

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